Sleepless in Pitman (8/30/15)

Posted by on Sep 7, 2015 in Sermons | 0 comments

Pastor Jim’s sermon on August 30 2015 took us to the book of Ruth.  This book reminds us that God works invisibly and mysteriously all the time- even in the midst of tragedy and heartbreak.

Click the “Play” button below to begin listening to the recording (from the 9:30 service), then scroll down and follow along…

 

 

The scripture reading was from Ruth 1:1-18.  Pastor Jim was reading from the Living Bible…

Ruth 1

1 In the days when the judges ruled in Israel, a severe famine came upon the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah left his home and went to live in the country of Moab, taking his wife and two sons with him. 2 The man’s name was Elimelech, and his wife was Naomi. Their two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem in the land of Judah. And when they reached Moab, they settled there. 3 Then Elimelech died, and Naomi was left with her two sons. 4 The two sons married Moabite women. One married a woman named Orpah, and the other a woman named Ruth. But about ten years later, 5 both Mahlon and Kilion died. This left Naomi alone, without her two sons or her husband.

6 Then Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had blessed his people in Judah by giving them good crops again. So Naomi and her daughters-in-law got ready to leave Moab to return to her homeland. 7 With her two daughters-in-law she set out from the place where she had been living, and they took the road that would lead them back to Judah. 8 But on the way, Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Go back to your mothers’ homes. And may the Lord reward you for your kindness to your husbands and to me. 9 May the Lord bless you with the security of another marriage.” Then she kissed them good-bye, and they all broke down and wept.

10 “No,” they said. “We want to go with you to your people.” 11 But Naomi replied, “Why should you go on with me? Can I still give birth to other sons who could grow up to be your husbands? 12 No, my daughters, return to your parents’ homes, for I am too old to marry again. And even if it were possible, and I were to get married tonight and bear sons, then what? 13 Would you wait for them to grow up and refuse to marry someone else? No, of course not, my daughters! Things are far more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord himself has raised his fist against me.”

14 And again they wept together, and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law good-bye. But Ruth clung tightly to Naomi. 15 “Look,” Naomi said to her, “your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her gods. You should do the same.” 16 But Ruth replied, “Don’t ask me to leave you and turn back. Wherever you go, I will go; wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. 17 Wherever you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord punish me severely if I allow anything but death to separate us!” 18 When Naomi saw that Ruth was determined to go with her, she said nothing more.

Holy Bible, New Living Translation ®, copyright © 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.

A Ruthless Period…

The book of Judges is a dramatic record of how “Everyone did what was right in their own eyes.”

Mt.Nebo. Moses' view of the Promised Land from across the Jordan Valley.

This is the period in which this story about Ruth takes place…. Naomi’s husband decides to leave Israel to escape the famine… Naomi’s sons decide to marry women from Moab… Naomi encourages her daughters-in-law to return to “their gods.”

Naomi was looking for “Comfort Food.”  When things go bad, we look to the familiar; we want to go back to the way we were before and we don’t see where God may be trying to take us.

But God has a different purpose.  He uses one of these non-Jewish women (one of “Those People”) to carry on the blood line which led to David and eventually to Jesus.

 

What the World Needs Now is Love Sweet Love…

In a very real way, this is a love story.  We get a vivid picture of the young woman (Ruth) hanging on to Naomi- refusing to leave her mother-in-law as her older sister turns towards the other direction and as Naomi returns to her people.  Ruth says:

“Don’t ask me to leave you!  Let me go with you.  Wherever you go, I will go; wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God.  Wherever you die, I will de, and that is where I will be buried.”

This is an amazing picture.  What superlatives can we find to describe such love between a mother-in-law and a daughter-in-law?  Our English word “Love” doesn’t cover it.  The Greek language does a better job at capturing the various meanings of Love:

This is the erotic love which is experienced by a husband and wife.
The love that we might have for friends. “Brotherly Love” (PHILAdelphia).
This is family love; the love between a brother and sister.
An outgoing, costly, freely given kind of love which is best seen in Jesus Christ.

QUESTION:

Which type of love was shown by Ruth when she decided to stay with Naomi? (click “Next” to reveal  the answer)

ANSWER:

Agape

How can we wrap our heads around this kind of love? Our culture tells us that love isn’t so much what I can give to a relationship; it’s what I can get from the relationship.  The love that Ruth shows here is completely selfless, generous… and rare.  She’s not asking “What’s in it for me?”

When the sister Orpah turned around (at Naomi’s  encouragement), she was demonstrating human logic. Leaving Naomi  and returning to her own culture was a logical thing to do.  But God defies our human logic!  Our logic can’t chase God away. Even our sin can’t chase God away.  God continues to pursue us, even as Ruth “pursued” Naomi by following her against all logic.

This is the same love that Jesus demonstrated…

John 8:3-11

As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.  “Teacher,” they said to Jesus, “this woman was caught in the act of adultery.  The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?”

6 They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger.  They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, “All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!”

8 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.  When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.

10 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, “Where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?”  “No, Lord,” she said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Go and sin no more.”

Matt 21:31 (regarding a son who initially said “yes” but didn’t do it and a son who initially said “no” but ended up doing it anyway…)

“Which of the two obeyed his father?” They replied, “The first.” Then Jesus explained his meaning: “I tell you the truth, corrupt tax collectors and prostitutes will get into the Kingdom of God before you do.”

Luke 19:10

“For the Son of Man came to seek and save those who are lost.”

John 3:16

“This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life.”

(from THE MESSAGE)

Jesus had no regard whatsoever with how He would benefit from giving Himself totally in love.  He was prepared to endure the stares of those who disapproved of his mixing with prostitutes and tax collectors,  He forgave and loved those who were totally (in our eyes) unlovable.

 

Responses to  Suffering…

There’s much to be learned ab out HOPE in SUFFERING in this text.  Together, each of these three individuals experienced hardship upon hardship- and they each responded to it differently.  The question isn’t IF suffering will occur, but WHEN.

WHEN suffering occurs,how will WE respond to it?

 

 

1-  Naomi:  Hopes in Nothing

In verses 19-22 we see that Naomi has been left in a state of despair.  She’s not trying to control her suffering, nor is she running from it.  She is sitting smack dab in the middle of it and it has left her feeling “Bitter.”

So the two of them continued on their journey. When they came to Bethlehem, the entire town was excited by their arrival. “Is it really Naomi?” the women asked. 

“Don’t call me Naomi,” she responded. “Instead, call me Mara, for the Almighty has made life very bitter for me.  I went away full, but the Lord has brought me home empty. Why call me Naomi when the Lord has caused me to suffer and the Almighty has sent such tragedy upon me?”

So Naomi returned from Moab, accompanied by her daughter-in-law Ruth, the young Moabite woman. They arrived in Bethlehem in late spring, at the beginning of the barley harvest.

She’s in a “woe is me”, “the glass is half empty” attitude.

But as bitter as she is, at least she holds on to some serious theology:  God is in control- even in the face of affliction.  Maybe that does help her to hang on to some hope (Psalm 34:19)…

A righteous man may have many troubles,
but the Lord delivers him from them all;

This doesn’t mean that God causes every bad thing that happens.  But it does mean that God is King, God reigns; even in the face of suffering and affliction, God is in control of everything that happens in our lives.

Noami is bitter, but the door is still open to God.

In the midst of our suffering, are we swallowed up by bitterness?  Are we paralyzed?  Or, do we cling to God for hope. Suffering is temporary…

In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little while, he will restore, support, and strengthen you, and he will place you on a firm foundation.   1 Peter 5:10-11

God is our refuge and strength,
always ready to help in times of trouble.
 So we will not fear when earthquakes come
and the mountains crumble into the sea.   Psalm 46:1-2

 

When bad things happen, God is still in control.  When we cling to Him in faith, He will bring something good out of the bad…

Romans 8:35-39

Can anything ever separate us from Christ’s love? Does it mean he no longer loves us if we have trouble or calamity, or are persecuted, or hungry, or destitute, or in danger, or threatened with death? (As the Scriptures say, “For your sake we are killed every day; we are being slaughtered like sheep.”)

No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.  And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.

No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord. NLT

James 1:12-13

God blesses those who patiently endure testing and temptation. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. NLT

Genesis 50:20-21

Joseph to his brothers…

You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people.

James 1:1b-3

…when troubles come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.  For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.

So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing. NLT

1 Corinthians 1:8-9

He will keep you strong to the end so that you will be free from all blame on the day when our Lord Jesus Christ returns.

God will do this, for he is faithful to do what he says, and he has invited you into partnership with his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. 

Zechariah 13:9

I will bring that group through the fire and make them pure. I will refine them like silver and purify them like gold. They will call on my name, and I will answer them. I will say, ‘These are my people,’ and they will say, ‘The Lord is our God.'”

NLT    

Nehemiah 1:5

“O Lord, God of heaven, the great and awesome God who keeps his covenant of unfailing love with those who love him and obey his commands…”  NLT   

Romans 8:28

And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.  NLT

If we cling to bitterness and wallow in a “woe is me” attitude, our vision of God’s agape love will be clouded, and we won’t find the hope He so desperately wants us to have.

 

2- Orpah:  Hopes in False Gods

Then we have Orpah.  She runs from suffering and places her hope in false gods.  She’s willing to try her luck on Match.com.

Do we trust God with every detail?  Or, do we rush to our “human logic” and do what seems best in our own eyes?

Most of us probably view what Orpah does as reasonable.  This is the ordinary “human” response to a bad situation that’s our of our control.  She is returning to what she has known and is comfortable with.  Instead of the God of Israel, she’s seeking the “gods of her comfort zone.”

The world tries to draw us into its version of Comfort Zone.

Just as with Johnny Lee’s 1980 hit (“Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places), the world tries to get us to look for strength (“gods”) in all the wrong places.  Christmas Ads try to convince us to think that we “Can’t live without ____”. (Check Out Pastor Jim’s sermon, “A Green Christmas.)  But true strength- and true hope- can only be found in God.

 

3- Ruth:  Hopes in Faith

Finally, there’s Ruth the Moabite- the now Jew- the one who will be redeemed into the family of God.  The story of Ruth is the story of us!

Ruth experiences the same suffering, but she responds completely differently  She does not try to run, she does not remain bitter, she in fact walks deeper into her faith in the face of suffering.  She takes the same “walk into faith” that Jesus calls us into:

These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace.  In the world you will have tribulation but be of good cheer:  I have overcome the world!  (John 16:33)

In Matthew 14, after Peter stepped out onto the water to walk to Jesus but then started to sink when he saw the waver, Jesus tells Peter “Oh ye of little faith.”  But it was that “little faith” that enabled Peter to step out onto the water in the first place.

This Moabite woman had “little faith.”  She stepped out, and it turned Naomi’s life around and led to the lineage from which Jesus came.

Conclusion

There IS hope in suffering.  God is a God of wisdom, a God of foresight, a God of love.  The story of Ruth reminds us that God works within the ashes of creation to create beauty.  God is King and He reigns in all the affairs of men, big and small, nations and families.

Psalm 47:7

For God is the King over all the earth. Praise him with a psalm!

Revelation 19:16

On his robe at his thigh was written this title: King of all kings and Lord of all lords.

Daniel 4:17

For this has been decreed by the messengers; it is commanded by the holy ones, so that everyone may know that the Most High rules over the kingdoms of the world. He gives them to anyone he chooses— even to the lowliest of people.”

Whether the Lord gave or the Lord took away (Job 1:21), Naomi never completely doubted that God was involved in every aspect of her life.  Even though she may not have liked the way God was involved!

Many of us are suffering now.  Honestly, I cannot telly you why beyond the fact that we live in a broken world, with broken people, who have broken bodies, and who do awful things.  Our faith in God through Jesus Christ does not take away every tragedy, but our faith reminds us that there is hope…

Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess.

For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are — yet was without sin.

Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

(Hebrews 4:14-16, NIV)

 

Where is your faith?  What are you trusting to get you through the rough stretches?

 


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