{"id":5494,"date":"2017-03-27T12:41:06","date_gmt":"2017-03-27T16:41:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=5494"},"modified":"2017-04-14T15:28:50","modified_gmt":"2017-04-14T19:28:50","slug":"men-preparing-for-2015-retreat-31315","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=5494","title":{"rendered":"Men Retreat to Strengthen their Mission (3\/17\/17)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Mens Fellowship group followed a tradition this year; we went on a retreat to Black Rock. This was our 16th annual retreat. Routine? Not really! Every time you open yourself up for an encounter with God, something different is likely to happen. The topic of this year&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Group-_Edited-_TS-IMG_0676.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-14556\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Group-_Edited-_TS-IMG_0676-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"321\" height=\"241\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Group-_Edited-_TS-IMG_0676-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Group-_Edited-_TS-IMG_0676.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 321px) 100vw, 321px\" \/><\/a>retreat was &#8220;Being a Man with a Mission&#8221;, and we explored how our &#8220;mission&#8221; plays out in our personal, family and church lives.<\/p>\n<p>Retreats aren&#8217;t just &#8220;book learning&#8221; or listening to a pastor give a presentation. These retreats are opportunities to form and to strengthen relationships by sharing the struggle of applying the topic to each of our lives. Somehow, in the atmosphere of &#8220;retreating&#8221; from the regular surroundings, we are able to hear God&#8217;s voice more clearly and to get in touch with our true feelings. In the music, or hiking, or even in eating, the distractions of the everyday world are removed and we&#8217;re open to re-evaluate and refocus.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Being a Man with a Mission<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Matt-_IMG_4151.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-14544\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Matt-_IMG_4151-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"105\" height=\"79\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Matt-_IMG_4151-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/UMM17-Matt-_IMG_4151.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 105px) 100vw, 105px\" \/><\/a>Our leader for this weekend was Pastor Matt Murphy of the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.217church.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">217Church<\/a><\/span> in Windsor NJ.<\/p>\n<p>During the four sessions (Friday evening, Saturday AM, Saturday PM, and Sunday AM), we used the example of Paul to explore the &#8220;Four Ms&#8221; of Mission.<\/p>\n<p>Click on each tab below to get a taste of each topic&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<div class='tabs-left et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_left_tabs clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et_left_tabs_bg'><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tMission\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tMessage\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tMethod\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tMinistry\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control --> \n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">On Friday evening (after a full meal at the Quarryville Family Restaurant), we looked at the concept of Mission&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Pastor Matt opened the discussion with a video of a grade school basketball game. During the scramble for the ball at one end of the court, a player grabbed the ball and ran towards the other basket. But on his way to making a great shot, his own coach came out onto the court and blocked his player&#8217;s shot. The boy was shooting at the wrong basket! He had mistakenly forgotten what his target was.<\/p>\n<p>But don&#8217;t we do the same thing? In the beginning of Acts, Paul (then known as Saul) was persecuting Christians; trying to stop the cause of the Gospel. He was shooting at the wrong basket! But God put him on a road to Damascus and then refocused his mission. Knowing our mission gives us the following three things:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Purpose-<\/span><\/strong> We weren&#8217;t saved just for ourselves; God saved us for a reason! Our purpose is to point others to Jesus. We&#8217;re supposed to reflect Him to the world. When you put everything behind your purpose, God will make things happen.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Passion<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; When we&#8217;re focused, we&#8217;ll really get into our mission. We&#8217;ll live it. Breath it. Talk to others about it. In Matthew 6:24, Jesus said you can&#8217;t serve both God and money. What are you passionate about?<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Priority<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; In Luke 18:24, Jesus told the Rich Young Ruler to sell everything he had and to give it to the poor. The young man walked away. His priority was on his wealth. When we&#8217;re focused on God&#8217;s mission, our priority will be God instead of our Stuff.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">On Saturday morning, we saw that our mission is useless without a firm grasp of our Message. Paul&#8217;s Message was the Gospel. So of course, we need to ask ourselves &#8220;what is the Gospel&#8221;? The literal definition of &#8220;Gospel&#8221; is &#8220;Good News.&#8221; But stated simply, the Gospel is Jesus! But what is the Good News that Jesus brings? It shows up in several areas:<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Jesus&#8217; Life<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; He lived a life worthy to know. We have a powerful Message! The essence of the Gospel is that when God looks at our sinful lives, He sees Jesus&#8217; perfect life instead.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Jesus&#8217; Death<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; It took a perfect sacrifice to save us, and the only perfect life that ever walked the face of this earth was Jesus&#8217;. And, He gave that perfect life so that we could have eternal life. That&#8217;s Good News!<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Jesus&#8217; Resurrection<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; If God was in control of Jesus in the grave, then He&#8217;s able to take control of your situation, how ever desperate it may seem. The resurrection gives us hope.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Jesus&#8217; Ascension<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; The disciples were a rough, untrained bunch. But Jesus left the mission with them. Jesus told THEM to go and make disciples. Like the first disciples, we too can trust God because He has trusted us.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Jesus&#8217; Kingdom<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; The Gospel isn&#8217;t simply a &#8220;get out of hell free card.&#8221; The Kingdom is in the here and now. Part of the Good News is that God has empowered us to draw others to the Kingdom. To live our lives in such a way that people ask us about Jesus.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">After a full afternoon of doing whatever (or nothing!), we looked at how we need a Method for accomplishing our Mission. If our mission is to point others to Christ, we need to realize that the people we encounter are on different levels of relationship. Our method is to meet people where they are, much as Paul started with the synagogue when he first entered a city. Matt gave us the notion that we meet people at three different &#8220;tables&#8221;&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">The Mission Table<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; There are the people we meet outside of church. Causal relationships with neighbors, or with people at work, or with extended family. We are called to &#8220;go and make disciples&#8221;, or more accurately translated, &#8220;to make disciples as we go.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">The Sacramental Table<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; These are the people we meet at church. Part of our method is to connect the people at our Mission Table with those at the Sacramental Table.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">The Agape Table<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; This is the group of friends with whom you can go deep. Share your closest to Christ moments. Confess sins. Our method is to draw people from the Sacramental Table into the Agape Table, but then empower them to reach out to their own Mission Tables.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t<\/div>\n<p>\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">We wrapped up our weekend on Sunday morning by evaluating our ministry. What is my role? Where does God want to send me? After looking at the Ministry of Paul, we can take several lessons&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Start with the Familiar<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; Form relationships in your &#8220;norm zone.&#8221; You are surrounded by people who share common interests and concerns. Your &#8220;ministry&#8221; starts with them. As you connect with God, He will reveal more about your ministry as you just hang out and engage with other people.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Try Something New<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; Be willing to change and adapt. What worked in the past, or what worked for you may not work now or with others.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Respond to Needs<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; Keep your eyes and ears open! What do people need? Your Ministry might be to meet those needs or to point someone to a person who can meet them.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Trust the Holy Spirit<\/span><\/strong>&#8211; Pray. Keep in contact with God in order to discover your ministry. The same power that rose Jesus from the grave is within us. Be willing to openly ask, &#8220;What&#8217;s next God?&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <!-- .tabs-left -->\n<div class='et-box et-bio'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><span style=\"color: #000000;\">To keep your focus, get into the habit of preaching the Gospel to yourself. One way to keep you focused is to remember the &#8220;Four Gs&#8221;. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">God is __:<\/span>\n\t\t<div class='et-simple-slider et_sliderfx_slide et_sliderauto_true et_sliderauto_speed_4000 et_slidertype_simple'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-simple-slides'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tGlorious: So I don&#8217;t have to fear others.\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tGood: So I don&#8217;t have to look elsewhere for satisfaction.\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tGreat: So I don&#8217;t have to be in control.\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tGracious: So I don&#8217;t have to prove myself.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-simple-slider --><\/div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>During each session, besides getting some great insights from Pastor Matt, we worshiped through music, listened to each other, and maybe even shed a few tears. And of course&#8230; plenty of nutritious food was available (despite the tragic and sudden sudden lack of macadamia nut cookies&#8230;).<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a glimpse of what we did during our time together in the conference room&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\t\t<div class='et-image-slider et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_true et_sliderauto_speed_4001 et_slidertype_images'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-image-slides'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Matt-_SR-20170317_212508-22207_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Band-_GS-IMG_1492-21232_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Band-_SR-20170317_210359-24700_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Band-_SR-20170317_210402-22023_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-CatchUp-_IMG_4146-21714_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-ChrisTomJon-_IMG_4143-16723_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Conf-_GS-IMG_1477-23462_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Jack-_IMG_4148-14223_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-TakeAways-_IMG_4150-14345_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Pizza-_IMG_4152-22202_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-image-slider -->\n\t\t\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Being Men on Retreat&#8230;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being on a Men&#8217;s retreat isn&#8217;t limited to serious stuff! In between the sessions, we enjoyed some great meals, snow covered trees, wooded paths, warm fireplaces, and even comfortable beds! And on Saturday night (another retreat tradition), we enjoyed a good movie along with lots of pizza.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few pictures of PUMC&#8217;s men &#8220;at play&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\t\t<div class='et-image-slider et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_true et_sliderauto_speed_4020 et_slidertype_images'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-image-slides'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-SnowSign-_IMG_4132-31267_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-SnowTable-_IMG_4136-17822_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Matt-_GS-IMG_1491-17604_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-SnowRoad-_IMG_4134-27444_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-JonGrizzly-_GS-IMG_1496-18351_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Fireplace-_SR-20170318_064932-15508_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Dine-_GS-IMG_1483-21391_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Chess-_IMG_4139-17558_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-SnowChairs-_IMG_4135-22549_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent et-image-slide'><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM17-Silos-_IMG_4163-9995_x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-image-slider -->\n\t\t\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">To learn more\u00a0 about our weekend, view the post that announced the retreat by opening the below drop down box&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Announcement<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><p>Our 16th Annual United Methodist Men\u2019s retreat is just around the corner!\u00a0 We had a great time <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=10176\" target=\"_blank\">last year<\/a><\/span>, and this year&#8217;s retreat promises to be another special time.\u00a0 It will be held at the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blackrockretreat.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Black Rock<\/a><\/span> Retreat Center (in Quarryville, PA) on the weekend of March 17, 18, and 19.\u00a0 We haven&#8217;t worked out a complete schedule, but generally our weekend runs as follows:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Friday- Dinner at the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tripadvisor.com\/Restaurant_Review-g53504-d410388-Reviews-Quarryville_Family_Restaurant-Quarryville_Pennsylvania.html\" target=\"_blank\">Quarryville Family Restaurant<\/a><\/span> (Optional)<\/li>\n<li>Friday- First session<\/li>\n<li>Saturday morning- Session #2<\/li>\n<li>Saturday afternoon- free time<\/li>\n<li>Saturday evening- Session #3<\/li>\n<li>Sunday morning- wrap up and worship.\u00a0 Depart by noon.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The retreat is open to any man 17 years or older.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Retreat Speaker<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Our speaker will be Pastor Matt Murphy of the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.217church.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">217Church<\/a><\/span> in Windsor NJ.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s Matt&#8217;s Bio&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\">\u201cI have been married to my beautiful wife, Kelly for the last 12 years. We have 4 kids: Joshua 8, Caleb 6, Gideon 3, and Sarah 2. <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-13494\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/Matt-Kelly-Murphy-_FB.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"182\" height=\"189\" \/>We have been in ministry together since before we were married.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\">We have been or are involved in youth ministry, young adult ministry, adult ministry, small groups and church planting. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #800000;\">My passion is to lead disciple making movements in local communities. Kelly and I love seeing our neighbors begin walking with Jesus.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Retreat Topic:\u00a0 Developing Movements\n <\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Movement?!?!\u00a0 Sounds like a charged word these days.\u00a0 But Jesus started a &#8220;movement.&#8221;\u00a0 What we now call the &#8220;Christian religion&#8221; started out being called &#8220;The Way&#8221; (see Acts 9:2, 19:9, 24:22&#8230;.\u00a0 and others).\u00a0\u00a0 Our mission is summed up in the phrase &#8220;Know, Grow, and GO.&#8221;\u00a0 Christianity doesn&#8217;t sit still!<\/p>\n<p>Pastor Matt has entitled the weekend&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 18pt; color: #008000;\">Developing Christ Centered Movements<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The keys to seeing movement in your life and ministry-\u00a0 from the life of Paul.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<h3>\u00a0<\/h3>\n<div class='et-box et-info'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The weekend will be organized around &#8220;The 4 M\u2019s of a Movement&#8221;&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #000080;\">M<\/span>ission: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=acts+8%3A1-3&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Acts 8:1-3<\/a>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span> \n <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #000080;\">M<\/span>essage: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Acts+13%3A13-44&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Acts 13:13-44<\/a>\u00a0<\/span> \n <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #000080;\">M<\/span>ethod: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Acts+16%3A12-15&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Acts 16:12-15<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt; color: #000080;\">M<\/span>inistry: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=acts+19%3A8-12&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Acts 19:8-12<\/a><\/span>\u00a0 \n <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol><\/div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Cost and Accommodations\n <\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We have three options on where we can room (all of these are part of the Black Rock facility and within easy walking\u00a0 distance of every venue during the weekend)&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-container et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_top_tabs'>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tCabin\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tWhipoorwill Lodge\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tDogwood Motel\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\u00a0\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control -->\n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tThe cabins are not &#8220;first class,&#8221; but they&#8217;re clean and comfortable.\u00a0 They include a common bath room with a couple of showers (no towels are provided).\u00a0 Sleeping is on bunks.\u00a0 Five bunk beds are in each cabin, and generally we&#8217;ll have lower bunks for anyone wanting them.\u00a0 Cushions are provided on the bunks, but bring your own linins or sleeping bags.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll also need a towel.<\/p>\n<p>Cost:\u00a0 $114<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tWhip-poor Will Lodge.\u00a0 Several of us stayed in this facility for the first time last year, and it was a big hit. \u00a0 It&#8217;s one of the newest buildings on campus (or &#8220;in camp&#8221;?).\u00a0 If you&#8217;ve been on the retreat, you may remember seeing it;\u00a0 it&#8217;s the A-Frame building behind our &#8220;usual&#8221; conference room.\u00a0 The &#8220;lodge&#8221; has 6 spaces.\u00a0 Real beds and linen are provided.<\/p>\n<p>Cost: $222<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tThe Dogwood motel is like&#8230; well, a motel!\u00a0 Each room has a queen bed and 1-2 twin sized beds (linen provided).\u00a0 The &#8220;motel&#8221; is located on the opposite end of camp from the main lodge, but it&#8217;s likely that our meeting room\u00a0 will be the one located right next to it (the meeting room isn&#8217;t assigned until we check in&#8230; depends on group size).<\/p>\n<p>Cost:\u00a0 $232<\/p>\n\t\t<\/div> \n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tContent goes here\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-tabs-container -->\n<p>If you are interested in going on the retreat, contact Gene Sevene, Chris Valianti, or drop an email to <a href=\"mailto:UMM@PitmanUMC.org\" target=\"_blank\">UMM@PitmanUMC.org<\/a>.\u00a0 As always, scholarship funds are available if you have a financial need.\u00a0 This is confidential as always.<\/p>\n<div class='et-box et-shadow'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><h4><span style=\"color: #333399;\">Deposit\u00a0 plan&#8230;<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #008000;\">You can pay it all off in one shot if you want, or installments are good too.\u00a0 The main thing is that you come!<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<ul style=\"list-style-type: circle;\">\n<li>1st deposit of $75 is due 12\/18<\/li>\n<li>2nd deposit of $75 is due 1\/29 &#8211; $25 for cabin dwellers. \u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Final balance due by 2\/26<\/li>\n<\/ul><\/div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10866\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10866\" class=\"wp-image-10866 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-group-_image2-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-group-_image2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-group-_image2.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-10866\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2016 Men&#8217;s Retreat with Rev. 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