{"id":10744,"date":"2016-03-01T12:31:43","date_gmt":"2016-03-01T16:31:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=10744"},"modified":"2016-04-14T09:34:05","modified_gmt":"2016-04-14T13:34:05","slug":"for-lent-loose-the-tude-22116","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=10744","title":{"rendered":"For Lent, Lose the &#8216;Tude! (2\/21\/16)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><em>We are now into a season of preparation for the passion and resurrection of our Lord.\u00a0 This preparation- which we call Lent- involves reevaluating our Walk and then getting rid of anything that&#8217;s getting in the way.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><em>With this message, Pastor Jim began a Lenten series called: &#8220;For Lent, Give Up Something Bad!&#8221;\u00a0 Too often we think of lent as being a time to temporarily give up something that&#8217;s not really bad&#8230; just to give up something as an act of sacrifice.\u00a0 But God is calling us to be more like Jesus.\u00a0 Most likely, that means we have to give up something more deeply seeded than coffee.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><em>Click the below &#8220;Play&#8221; button and scroll down to follow along (the recording is from the 11:00 service)&#8230;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-10744-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Sermon-2016-02-21b_-For-Lent-Lose-the-Tude_by-Pastor-Jim-Bolton-_6kbs-mono.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Sermon-2016-02-21b_-For-Lent-Lose-the-Tude_by-Pastor-Jim-Bolton-_6kbs-mono.mp3\">https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/Sermon-2016-02-21b_-For-Lent-Lose-the-Tude_by-Pastor-Jim-Bolton-_6kbs-mono.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The sermon was based on 2 scriptures:\u00a0 Matthew 7:1-5 and Romans 14:10-13.\u00a0 The Matthew passage was read from the King James version and Romans was read from The Living Bible.\u00a0 Open the drop down boxes to read along.\u00a0 The New King James and the New Living Translation are used below&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Matthew 7:1-5<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">1\u00a0 &#8220;Judge not, that you be not judged.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">2 For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">3 And why do you look at the speck in your brother&#8217;s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">4 Or how can you say to your brother, &#8216;Let me remove the speck from your eye&#8217;; and look, a plank is in your own eye?\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">5 Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother&#8217;s eye.\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">NKJV<\/span><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Romans 14:10-13<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><\/span><\/p>\n<p>10 <span style=\"color: #000000;\">So why do you condemn another believer? Why do you look down on another believer? Remember, we will all stand before the judgment seat of God.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">11 For the Scriptures say, &#8220;&#8216;As surely as I live,&#8217; says the Lord, &#8216;every knee will bend to me, and every tongue will confess and give praise to God.'&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">12 Yes, each of us will give a personal account to God.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">13 So let&#8217;s stop condemning each other. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not cause another believer to stumble and fall.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Holy Bible, New Living Translation \u00ae, copyright \u00a9 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.<\/span>\u00a0<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Look Out for Mis-Perceptions<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Have you ever rushed into judgement about something?\u00a0 You saw somebody do something and you immediately jumped to the conclusion that what he or she was doing was bad?<\/p>\n<p>What if some long haired hippy-looking musician walked into our sanctuary?\u00a0 What if a guitar player with a green knit hat walked in and started to sing?\u00a0 Wouldn&#8217;t you be expecting something bad to happen?\u00a0 Would you expect that their music would glorify God?<\/p>\n<p>Take a listen to this&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Were these the lyrics you were expecting???<\/p>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Lyrics<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Preaching the Gospel to everyone we meet<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Hey Hey we&#8217;re the &#8230;. Christians!<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Got the power of the Spirit and we&#8217;ve got something to say<\/span><\/li>\n<li>We&#8217;re too busy praying to put anybody down<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Don&#8217;t we do the same thing in our lives?\u00a0 We take one quick look and instantly make a decision.\u00a0 We make judgements.\u00a0 We react to the outer appearance.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Loose the &#8220;Judge, Jury and Executioner&#8221; Mentality!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>In Matthew 7:1, Jesus spoke the words which may have become the most mis-used and mis-understood of anything He said&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0&#8220;Judge not, that you be not judged.\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The word translated as &#8220;Judge&#8221; doesn&#8217;t mean we shouldn&#8217;t recognize sin.\u00a0 It doesn&#8217;t even mean that we shouldn&#8217;t point out that sin, in a loving way, and hold the person accountable.\u00a0 But what it does mean is that we shouldn&#8217;t Condemn someone when we see them do something we think is wrong.\u00a0 We shouldn&#8217;t write someone off without knowing them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Loose the Self-Righteous Arrogance<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>As Jesus looked at the religious situation of His day, He saw that judging and condemning others had become a great religious problem.\u00a0 The religious leaders were self-appointed critics who were quick to pass judgement on those who didn&#8217;t live up to their expectations.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few examples&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<div class='tabs-left et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_left_tabs clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et_left_tabs_bg'><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tSimon and the Sinful Woman\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tThe Pharisee and the Tax Collector\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tThe Caught and Forgiven Adultress\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control --> \n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<p>Take a look at what happened in Luke chapter 7 (verses 36-39)&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">One of the Pharisees asked Jesus to have dinner with him, so Jesus went to his home and sat down to eat.\u00a0 When a certain immoral woman from that city heard he was eating there, she brought a beautiful alabaster jar filled with expensive perfume.\u00a0 Then she knelt behind him at his feet, weeping. Her tears fell on his feet, and she wiped them off with her hair. Then she kept kissing his feet and putting perfume on them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, &#8220;If this man were a prophet, he would know what kind of woman is touching him. She&#8217;s a sinner!&#8221;<\/span>\n<span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Holy Bible, New Living Translation \u00ae, copyright \u00a9 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tOr, remember this story about two men who went to the Temple (Luke 18:10-14&#8230;)?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8220;Two men went to the Temple to pray. One was a Pharisee, and the other was a despised tax collector.\u00a0 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed this prayer: &#8216;I thank you, God, that I am not a sinner like everyone else. For I don&#8217;t cheat, I don&#8217;t sin, and I don&#8217;t commit adultery. I&#8217;m certainly not like that tax collector!\u00a0 I fast twice a week, and I give you a tenth of my income.&#8217; <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0&#8220;But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed. Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow, saying, &#8216;O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.&#8217;\u00a0 I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.&#8221;<\/span> <\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Holy Bible, New Living Translation \u00ae, copyright \u00a9 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div><\/blockquote>\n<p>\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tThe Pharisees had deemed a certain woman a &#8220;sinner&#8221; who must be stoned.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s what happened in John 8:1-11&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Jesus returned to the Mount of Olives,\u00a0 but early the next morning he was back again at the Temple. A crowd soon gathered, and he sat down and taught them.\u00a0 As he was speaking, the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in the act of adultery. They put her in front of the crowd.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0&#8220;Teacher,&#8221; they said to Jesus, &#8220;this woman was caught in the act of adultery.\u00a0 The law of Moses says to stone her. What do you say?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0They were trying to trap him into saying something they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger.\u00a0 They kept demanding an answer, so he stood up again and said, &#8220;All right, but let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!&#8221;\u00a0 Then he stooped down again and wrote in the dust.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0When the accusers heard this, they slipped away one by one, beginning with the oldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with the woman.\u00a0 Then Jesus stood up again and said to the woman, &#8220;Where are your accusers? Didn&#8217;t even one of them condemn you?&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0&#8220;No, Lord,&#8221; she said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">And Jesus said, &#8220;Neither do I. Go and sin no more.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\">Holy Bible, New Living Translation \u00ae, copyright \u00a9 1996, 2004 by Tyndale Charitable Trust. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers. All rights reserved.<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <!-- .tabs-left --><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The pharisees, in their self righteous arrogance, had created a special class of people called &#8220;sinners,&#8221; as they themselves were not such.\u00a0 They judged; they condemned.\u00a0 And they do so thinking they were somehow above having any sin in them.\u00a0 They look over the top part of their bifocals and say, &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Oh my!\u00a0 I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m not like that rift-raff of the earth over there.\u00a0 All the sinful things he does&#8230; compared to the holy lifestyle I live.&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the kind of judging attitude Jesus condemns.<\/p>\n<div class='et-box et-warning'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Have you ever listened to a man watch a football game, especially is his team is loosing?\u00a0 He&#8217;ll criticize the quarterback for not throwing well, the receivers for not catching the easy passes, and the linemen for not blocking well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Have you ever thought?&#8212; if he&#8217;s so good at knowing what to do, then\u00a0 why is he sitting in a chair watching the game instead of being out\u00a0 there playing? <\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p>What about life in the church?\u00a0 Are we tempted to be arm chair quarterbacks, quick to criticize but slow to jump in and help out?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Dump the &#8216;Tude, but Keep Your Wits&#8230;.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When Jesus uses the word &#8220;judge&#8221; in verse 1, it is the Greek word &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #003300;\">krino<\/span><\/em><\/strong>.&#8221;\u00a0 By implication, it means to &#8220;try, condemn, punish.&#8221;\u00a0 That&#8217;s a stronger idea than simply making a judgement on what color socks to wear to work today.<\/p>\n<p>J.B. Phillips renders verse 1 as:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Don&#8217;t criticize people,\u00a0 and you will not be criticized.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Eugene Peterson, in the Message, puts it this way:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Don&#8217;t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults \u2014 unless, of course, you want the same treatment.<\/span> <\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>John Stott prefers the English word &#8220;censoriousness&#8221; for &#8220;judge.&#8221;\u00a0 In other words, don&#8217;t be giving to &#8220;censure.&#8221;\u00a0 Censuring, or saying &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Ah ha!\u00a0 You&#8217;re wrong and I&#8217;m right<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8221; is not an objective discerning judgement, but the harshness of one who is a fault-finder, a blamer, one who puts the worst possible construction upon and act, one who condemns sternly.<\/p>\n<p>So Jesus says that were are not to judge.\u00a0 He&#8217;s not talking about the judgment in a courtroom.\u00a0 He&#8217;s not talking about judging open and obvious sin.\u00a0 He&#8217;s not talking about judging false teachers.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-10778 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/judge-158269__180-400x300-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"judge-158269__180 400x300\" width=\"188\" height=\"141\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/judge-158269__180-400x300-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/judge-158269__180-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 188px) 100vw, 188px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>What Jesus is talking about is a hasty,\u00a0 unloving, &#8220;holier than thou&#8221; type of attitude.\u00a0 We sometimes call this &#8220;jumping\u00a0 to conclusions.&#8221;\u00a0 It&#8217;s\u00a0 at the very heart of gossiping and rumor bearing.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus was NOT saying that we should\u00a0 never employ appropriate judgment\u00a0 in situations,\u00a0 but rather that we should not have a harsh, judgmental spirit.<\/p>\n<p>John Stott put it this way:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Jesus does not tell us to cease to be men (by suspending our critical powers which\u00a0 help to distinguish from animals) but to renounce the presumptuous ambition to be God (by setting ourselves up as judges).<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-size: 14pt;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Dump your Desire to be Right<\/span><\/span><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000; font-size: 14pt;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&#8220;Setting ourselves up to be God&#8230;&#8221;\u00a0 That&#8217;s what drives this overly critical attitude: a belief that we can see as God sees.\u00a0 A hard and fast attitude of, &#8220;The Bible says it, I believe it, that settles it.&#8221;\u00a0 We do need to strive to remain true to The Word, but sometimes our confidence in our interpretation or point of view can lead to an attitude that places condemnation above grace, separation above unity, and selfishness over love.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what Jesus wants to eliminate from His people.\u00a0 We need to understand that in the Kingdom of God it is never enough to be right.\u00a0\u00a0 Jesus <strong><em>was<\/em><\/strong> always right, and yet He wasn&#8217;t judgmental.\u00a0 He actually said that God didn&#8217;t send Him into the world to judge the world, but so that the world would be saved through Him&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8220;For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. <\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0 (John 3:16-18,\u00a0 NIV)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Yes, people will be judged, but that&#8217;s not why He came.\u00a0 As disciples of His, we shouldn&#8217;t live to judge people either.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Don&#8217;t be Pushy:\u00a0 We&#8217;re Walking in Shared Shoes<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The Native Americans had an appropriate saying:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Don&#8217;t judge a man until you&#8217;ve walked a mile in his moccasins.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Joe South picked up on this in his song called &#8220;Walk a mile in My Shoes.&#8221;\u00a0 The song states&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Before you criticize and accuse me,\u00a0 walk a mile in my shoes.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The ancient Rabbi Hilel (110BC &#8211; 10AD) one said&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">Do not judge a man until you yourself have come into his circumstances or situation.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>When the adulteress was thrown down in front of Jesus, he walked in her shoes of harsh criticism and tasted the pain she was feeling.\u00a0 She <em>was<\/em> guilty.\u00a0 She <em>was<\/em> a sinner.\u00a0 Jesus does recognize that, yes, &#8220;her sins are many.&#8221;\u00a0 But He offers grace and forgiveness instead of condemnation.<\/p>\n<p>Kindness can get us further with kids than being pushy. Judgement doesn&#8217;t fit when we&#8217;re all in the same boat.\u00a0 We all need grace and forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Genesis 1:26 tells us that all of humanity is created &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">in the image of God.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8221;\u00a0 In Colossians 3:11 Paul reminds us that we&#8217;re in the same boat:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">In this new life, it doesn&#8217;t matter if you are a Jew or a Gentile, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbaric, uncivilized, slave, or free. Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us. \u00a0<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 NLT<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Same thing in 1 Corinthians 12:13&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves, and some are free. But we have all been baptized into one body by one Spirit, and we all share the same Spirit.<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0 NLT<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>So if we&#8217;re in the same boat, walking in the same shoes, having the same need of forgiveness, sharing the same Spirit&#8230; how can we ever think that we should criticize anyone?\u00a0 How can we have the &#8216;Tude that we&#8217;re better than someone else???<\/p>\n<p>There is a kind of crystal called a Labrador spar.\u00a0 At first glance it is &#8220;dull and without luster; but if it is turned round and round&#8230;. it will suddenly come into a position where the light strikes it in a certain way and it will sparkle with flashing beauty.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class='et-box et-bio'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">A man is a bit of a Labrador spar, which has no luster as you turn it in your hand, until you come to a particular angle; then it shows deep and beautiful colors.<\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p>The &#8220;deep and beautiful colors&#8221; shine when we see Jesus in others; when we realize that we need the same grace and forgiveness that they need.\u00a0 The colors can&#8217;t be seen through the prism of our own self righteousness.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Dodge the Boomerang Effect&#8230;<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Verse 2 of our passage from Matthew 7 says,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>With our bad &#8216;Tude, we tend to quickly look for ways to judge&#8230; only to find that we&#8217;re just as guilty&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class='et-box et-shadow'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><span style=\"color: #000000;\">There is a story about a newspaper reporter who was searching for a story about what he called &#8220;the laziness that existed throughout the South.&#8221;\u00a0 When he visited an area he saw a man sitting in a chair out in his field hoeing the weeds.\u00a0 The reporter thought, this HAD to be the ultimate in laziness!\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So he rushed back to his car to start his story.\u00a0 But before driving off, he looked back at the man a second time.\u00a0 What he saw changed his outlook.\u00a0 The judgmental reporter saw that the pants legs on the farmer hung down loose- clearly showing that the man had no legs!\u00a0 So what was judged at first to be a story of laziness turned out to be a story of great courage.<\/span><\/div><\/div>\n<p>That goes to show us the limits of what we sometimes see in other people.\u00a0 The scriptures tell us that &#8220;<strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.<\/span><\/strong>&#8221; (1 Samuel 16:7).<\/p>\n<p>We see the same thing in the following passages (all quotations are from the NLT)&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-container et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_top_tabs'>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tJohn 7\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tJeremiah 17\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tLuke 16\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t1 Chronicles 28\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t1 Kings 8\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control --> \n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tJohn 7:24<\/p>\n<p>Look <span style=\"background-color: #00ff00;\">beneath the surface<\/span> so you can judge correctly.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tJeremiah 17:10<\/p>\n<p>I, the Lord, search all hearts and <span style=\"background-color: #00ff00;\">examine secret motives<\/span>. I give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tLuke 16:15<\/p>\n<p>Then he said to them, &#8220;You like to appear righteous in public, but <span style=\"background-color: #00ff00;\">God knows your hearts<\/span>. What this world honors is detestable in the sight of God.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t1 Chronicles 28:9<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And Solomon, my son, learn to know the God of your ancestors intimately. Worship and serve him with <span style=\"background-color: #00ff00;\">your whole heart<\/span> and a willing mind. For the Lord sees every heart and knows every plan and thought. If you seek him, you will find him. 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