{"id":10176,"date":"2016-03-17T13:08:27","date_gmt":"2016-03-17T17:08:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=10176"},"modified":"2016-06-03T08:39:17","modified_gmt":"2016-06-03T12:39:17","slug":"mens-fellowship-planning-to-advance-by-retreat-31116","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=10176","title":{"rendered":"Men&#8217;s Fellowship Retreats and Grows into Leadership (3\/11\/16)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s really helpful to shift your focus from the daily routine, and get away to spend some time with friends around a time of learning, worship, and fellowship.\u00a0 And that&#8217;s exactly what a retreat is!\u00a0 For the 15th year in a row, our Men&#8217;s Fellowship group took a weekend apart and traveled to the Black Rock Retreat Center in Quaryville, PA.\u00a0 It&#8217;s a familiar place for us, but each weekend has its own character and its own take-aways of growth and learning.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_10865\" style=\"width: 211px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10865\" class=\"wp-image-10865\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-ChrisYount-_Toms-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"UMM16- ChrisYount _Toms\" width=\"201\" height=\"151\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-ChrisYount-_Toms-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-ChrisYount-_Toms.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-10865\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Rev. Chris Yount<\/p><\/div>\n<p>This year&#8217;s speaker was the Rev. Chris Yount, pastor of the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.newlife-umc.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">New Life United Methodist Church<\/a> in New Fairfield, CT. \u00a0 and a long time friend of our own Pastor Jim Bolton (from their days together at Drew&#8230; <span style=\"font-size: 8pt;\"><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">back in the &#8217;90s<\/span><\/em><\/span>&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>During the weekend, Pastor Chris challenged us to re-evaluate our goals.\u00a0 What is important in life?\u00a0 What&#8217;s the MOST important thing in life?<\/p>\n<p>The answer lies in the fact that contentment can only be found in the pursuit of God.\u00a0 Jesus asks us this question:<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #008000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Am I enough for you???<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>What else could there be?!?\u00a0 What else could we possibly need?<\/p>\n<p>During the weekend, Pastor Chris gave us practical ways in which we can make this pursuit of God in our lives.<\/p>\n<div class='et-box et-bio'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The goal of a basketball game is to shoot the ball through a hoop, and success is measured by how many times we do that. But the scoreboard in Black Rock&#8217;s gym reminds us of a more important goal&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-10867 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-Black-Rock-Score-_IMG_3113-600x200-300x97.jpg\" alt=\"UMM16- Black Rock Score _IMG_3113 600x200\" width=\"504\" height=\"163\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-Black-Rock-Score-_IMG_3113-600x200-300x97.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/UMM16-Black-Rock-Score-_IMG_3113-600x200.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 504px) 100vw, 504px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">&#8220;To Know Christ and to Make Him Known&#8221;<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0\u00a0 To KNOW Christ&#8230; is that how we measure our own success?\n<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Growing Together<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Our retreat consisted of a session on Friday night, two sessions on Saturday, and a closing session and worship on Sunday.\u00a0 Open the Drop Down boxes below to get a taste of Pastor Chris&#8217; message to us&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Friday PM<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><div id=\"attachment_10786\" style=\"width: 229px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10786\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-10786\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Jericho-Sycamore-_45-17-300x411-219x300.jpg\" alt=\"Sycamore Tree in Jericho\" width=\"219\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Jericho-Sycamore-_45-17-300x411-219x300.jpg 219w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Jericho-Sycamore-_45-17-300x411.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 219px) 100vw, 219px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-10786\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sycamore Tree in Jericho<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The backdrop for Friday&#8217;s session was the account of Zacchaeus, as found in <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=luke+19&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Luke 19<\/a><\/span>.\u00a0\u00a0 Zacchaeus, who was despised by the people because of his tax-collecting-excesses, really wanted to see Jesus.\u00a0 He heard Jesus was coming and he made it a goal to see Jesus.\u00a0 So he pulled up his robe and climbed a sycamore tree so he could catch a glimpse.<\/p>\n<p>Striving to see Jesus requires humility.\u00a0 We have to realize that, indeed, Jesus is Enough for Us.&#8221;\u00a0 There&#8217;s nothing in our power that we can do to add to that.\u00a0 Jesus is all we need.<\/p>\n<p>Our job is to &#8220;Love people into the arms of Jesus&#8221;, but all too often our pride gets in the way and we confuse our job with the notion that we need to increase numbers, or to have a bigger church than the others.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #800080;\">&#8220;Lord Make this church the size you want it to be&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Pride puts us on the <strong>Hamster wheel of success<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, we need to &#8220;tie up our robes&#8221; and climb whatever &#8220;tree&#8221; we need to climb.\u00a0 We need to trust in the words of Philippians 4:13&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;<span id=\"en-TLB-26476\" class=\"text Phil-4-13\"><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><sup class=\"versenum\">\u00a0<\/sup>for I can do everything God asks me to with the help of Christ who gives me\u00a0the strength and power.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8220;<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Is God enough for you?<\/p>\n<p>We ended this session by writing a letter to God, confessing the things that drive us away from fully trusting in him.<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Saturday AM<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><p>This morning&#8217;s session looked at the Parable of the Sower, as told in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=luke+8%3A4-15&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Luke 8:4-15<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0 Are we &#8220;fertile soil?&#8221;\u00a0 We need to constantly ensure that we&#8217;re open to God&#8217;s leading.<\/p>\n<p>This parable isn&#8217;t just about salvation.\u00a0 It&#8217;s not a one and done thing.\u00a0 We can be different types of soil at any time.\u00a0 We need to constantly work in the following four areas:<\/p>\n\n\t\t\t<div class='tabs-left et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_left_tabs clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et_left_tabs_bg'><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tPLOW\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tPREPARE\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tPLANT\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\tPROTECT\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control --> \n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tWe need to rid ourselves of the &#8220;rocks&#8221; that litter the soil and get in the way of the nourishment that our roots need.\u00a0 This involves discovering the things that we&#8217;re doing that make us run away from God, and then to turn around and run TOWARDS God.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things we need in order to keep our &#8220;field plowed&#8221; is accountability.\u00a0 Build relationships with people who can ask you &#8220;How goes it with your soul?&#8221; and then demand an honest answer from you.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tWe won&#8217;t receive any seed unless we spend time with God.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Read-<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 The Bible (mainly), and other books \/ devotionals<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Pray-<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 Develop habits leading you to &#8220;constant prayer&#8221;<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Journal-<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 Write down your experiences every day.\u00a0 Keep track of prayers and their answers.<\/li>\n<li><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Beware of the bad &#8220;rocks&#8221; that can fill you mind (TV and other media).<\/span><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tSow God&#8217;s Word into the situations of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>The Bible isn&#8217;t just head-knowledge.\u00a0 We need to be able to recall God&#8217;s Word in every situation in order to apply it.\u00a0 It should become part of our regular speech.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t just simply quote scripture (that sounds pushy and &#8220;preachy&#8221;), but speak it in your own words as it guides your thoughts and interactions with others.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\tThe &#8220;weeds&#8221; always want to return.\u00a0 If you don&#8217;t keep weeding, they will return and overrun your &#8220;garden.&#8221;\u00a0 Weeding isn&#8217;t easy; it hurts!\u00a0 Recognizing the &#8220;rocks&#8221; and sins in our lives and repenting of them isn&#8217;t easy either.\u00a0 But we must constantly open ourselves up to the Holy Spirit (and our accountibility small group) to keep the &#8220;weeds&#8221; out of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>We also need to be careful that we don&#8217;t unknowingly plant weeds along with the seed.\u00a0 Sin can be a slippery slope; take care that you don&#8217;t get too close to things that can tempt you into going the wrong way. Use an accountability group to build a &#8220;fence&#8221; that keeps your &#8220;garden&#8221; free of the things that can limit your growth.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <!-- .tabs-left --><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Saturday PM<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'>We began Saturday&#8217;s session by helping to build a &#8220;wall of protection&#8221; around our pastor, by praying for Pastor Jim.\u00a0 We then looked at &#8220;Seven Essential Practices of Godly Leaders.&#8221;&#8230;\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-container et_sliderfx_fade et_sliderauto_false et_sliderauto_speed_5000 et_slidertype_top_tabs'>\n\t\t\t\t<ul class='et-tabs-control'>\n\t\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t1\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t2\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t3\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t4\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t5\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t6\n\t\t<\/a><\/li> \n\t\t<li><a href='#'>\n\t\t\t7\n\t\t<\/a><\/li>\n\t\t<\/ul> <!-- .et-tabs-control --> \n\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content'>\n\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-main-wrap'>\n\t\t\t\t<div class='et-tabs-content-wrapper'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">1: ACCOUNTABILITY<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Proverbs 27:17 tells us-\u00a0 &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8221;\u00a0 Men connecting with other men makes us better.\u00a0 We need to develop relationships that help us &#8220;sharpen each other.&#8221;\u00a0 Here are some thoughts:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Enter into a relationship where your a MENTOR.<\/li>\n<li>Enter into a relationship where your are being MENTORED.<\/li>\n<li>Start a small group.<\/li>\n<li>Identify:\u00a0 Who are you accountable to?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t<\/div><\/p>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">2: DAILY DISCIPLINE OF TIME WITH GOD<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In Mark 1:35-37, we learn something about Jesus&#8217; habits:\n<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.\u00a0 Simon and his companions went to look for him,\u00a0 and when they found him, they exclaimed: &#8220;Everyone is looking for you!&#8221;<\/span> <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The world was always pressing in on Him, but even Jesus needed a &#8220;retreat&#8221;; a time away.\u00a0 In this passage He dedicated the early morning as His &#8220;quiet time.&#8221;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Q-\u00a0 How did you get to know your future wife before you were married?\nA-\u00a0 You spent time with her!<\/li>\n<li>When&#8217;s the last time you told her that you adored her?\nWhen&#8217;s the last time you told God how wonderful He is?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In order to &#8220;court God&#8221; we need to regularly spend time with Him.\u00a0 We need to carve out a special time during each day where we can study the Bible and pray.\u00a0 For most people, the morning is the best option.\u00a0 Get up a bit earlier.\u00a0 Get into the Word before the World gets into you.<\/p>\n<p><a href='https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?p=5198' class='small-button smallpurple' target=\"_blank\">Bible Reading Plan<\/a> <a href='https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/?page_id=2573' class='small-button smallblue' target=\"_blank\">Devotionals<\/a><\/p>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">3: CARING FOR THE TEMPLE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Romans 12:1 tells us,\u00a0\u00a0 &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God&#8217;s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8221; Our bodies are pretty important!\u00a0 We can&#8217;t offer ourselves in worship if we&#8217;re not taking care of ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>We may not think of concerns such as food, sleep, and exercise as concerns that can affect our ability to be Godly Leaders, but if we don&#8217;t take the time to care for our bodies we won&#8217;t be able to be of use to God.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">4: BRAIN WORK<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>2 Timothy 2:15 tells us that &#8220;study is our buddy&#8221;&#8230; &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.<\/span> <\/em><\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It takes effort to be able to &#8220;handle the word of truth.&#8221;\u00a0 What are you studying?\u00a0 What are you reading?\u00a0 What are you watching on TV???\u00a0 Do these investments of &#8220;brain power&#8221; and time help you to become a better &#8220;workman&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>A Bible Study has been referred to as &#8220;cramming for the finals.&#8221; But beyond that, keeping our minds in shape with Godly Thoughts and knowledge helps us lead an effective and contented life in Christ.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">5: SABBOTH<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Exodus 20:8 commands us to, &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy<\/span><\/em><\/strong>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>God made the world in 6 days, then He rested.\u00a0 As for us, we spend 6 days in the rat race- going to work, traveling, driving the kids to school, shopping, caring for the house&#8230; we need that one day (Sunday or otherwise) that&#8217;s dedicated to being different (&#8220;holy&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p>Godly leaders need a &#8220;<strong>stop day<\/strong>.&#8221;\u00a0 We need a day where we spend time with our family; the family at home and the family at church.<\/p>\n<p>Is your Sunday your best day, or is it just like the other days?\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">6: SERVE SOMEWHERE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Galatians 6:9-10 says,\u00a0 &#8220;<strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.\u00a0 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.<\/span><\/em><\/strong>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Godly leaders find a place where they can give without expecting to get back.\u00a0 Service goes beyond committee meetings.\u00a0 Godly service- things like serving in a soup kitchen, or food pantry, or visiting shutins- is when you are actively &#8220;loving people into the arms of Jesus.&#8221;\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t<div class='et_slidecontent'>\n\t\t\t<strong><span style=\"color: #008000;\">7: BALANCE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you do a self-assessment and compare your life to these practices, you&#8217;ll probably find that you&#8217;re fairly good at a few of them but lacking in others.\u00a0 These practices aren&#8217;t meant to be taken as &#8220;specialties.&#8221;\u00a0 All\u00a0 of us need to practice all of them in order to grow as Godly leaders.\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-tabs-container --><\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Sunday AM<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><p>On Sunday, we turned our attention to Caleb, one of the two spies (in addition to Joshua) whose faith allowed him to encourage the Israelites to take the land that God had promised to them.\u00a0 Caleb held on to God&#8217;s promise and pursued it until the end of his life.\u00a0 His name means &#8220;dog&#8221;&#8230; we can think of Caleb as a Junk Yard Dog who is focused on sticking close to God and receiving His promises.<\/p>\n<p>The story of Caleb is found in Numbers 13.\u00a0 Moses (because of the people&#8217;s lack of faith- see <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Deuteronomy+1%3A19-26&amp;version=TLB\" target=\"_blank\">Deuteronomy\u00a01:22<\/a><\/span>) sent 12 spies to check out the promised land, and here&#8217;s what happened when they returned (Numbers 13:26-30)&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">They came back to Moses and Aaron and the whole Israelite community at Kadesh in the Desert of Paran. There they reported to them and to the whole assembly and showed them the fruit of the land.\u00a0 They gave Moses this account: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8220;We went into the land to which you sent us, and it does flow with milk and honey! Here is its fruit.\u00a0 But the people who live there are powerful, and the cities are fortified and very large. We even saw descendants of Anak there.\u00a0 The Amalekites live in the Negev; the Hittites, Jebusites and Amorites live in the hill country; and the Canaanites live near the sea and along the Jordan.&#8221; <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Then Caleb silenced the people before Moses and said, &#8220;We should go up and take possession of the land, for we can certainly do it.&#8221;<\/span> <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Caleb said:\u00a0 We should go up&#8230; for we can certainly do it.&#8221;\u00a0 Caleb believed God&#8217;s promise.\u00a0 He remembered how God had just freed them from from Egyptian captivity, and how He destroyed the greatest army on earth by drowning them in the Red Sea. But somehow, the other spies and the Israelites forgot.<\/p>\n<p>Are we practicing habits that help us to remember?\u00a0 Does the way we live allow us to answer, &#8220;<strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">YES!\u00a0 God is enough for me!<\/span><\/strong>&#8220;???<\/p>\n<p>Many years later, when Caleb was in his 80s; when they were about to take Jericho (the city he had spied out so many years earlier), he could hear the people tell Joshua<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">They said to Joshua, &#8220;The Lord has surely given the whole land into our hands; all the people are melting in fear because of us.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Joshua 2:24<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Caleb&#8217;s faith and &#8220;junk yard dog&#8221; focus were confirmed.\u00a0 Paul and Caleb both had a mindset that was focused on the prize of a relationship with God:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8230;but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.\u00a0 Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead,\u00a0 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Philippians 3:12-14<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Are we &#8220;pressing on&#8221; or are we just getting by?\u00a0 Like Caleb, we need the focus that is provided by good goals.\u00a0 Without goals (goals that are consistent with God&#8217;s will!), we are not living life to the fullest.\u00a0 Someone has suggested the &#8220;Six in Six Rule&#8221;: Set Six goals which can be attained in Six weeks.\u00a0 Starting off with a list of things that you can easily accomplish is a good way to start.<\/p>\n<p>But beyond that, we also need longer range goals.\u00a0 Here are a few challenges.\u00a0 Developing habits like these can open us up the the Holy Spirit&#8217;s leading and bring us to a fruitful life:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Read the Bible every day for __ minutes&#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Pray every day for __ minutes&#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Journal 4-6 times a week&#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Decide to read an inspirational book- and read it!&#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Join a small group &#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Go to church every Sunday (even when traveling) &#8230;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Spend time with your wife- carve out some time.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Be a &#8220;Junk Yard Dog!&#8221;\u00a0 Protect your relationship with God and chase after anything that can draw you closer to Him.<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Getting Away<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-6275\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/UMM-Retreat15-Lodge-_IMG_1649-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"UMM Retreat15 Lodge _IMG_1649\" width=\"180\" height=\"135\" srcset=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/UMM-Retreat15-Lodge-_IMG_1649-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/UMM-Retreat15-Lodge-_IMG_1649.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 180px) 100vw, 180px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In addition to the sessions of learning and worship, a Men&#8217;s retreat is a chance to get away and enjoy a &#8220;different routine&#8221; for a couple of days.\u00a0 The Black Rock Retreat Center has excellent accommodations; cabins, hotel style rooms, hiking trails, the Maranatha Lodge with its huge fireplaces, and- of course- the Dining Room!<\/p>\n<p>Buffets of Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner filled our bellies, just as the worship and study sessions filled our hearts and minds.<\/p>\n<p>In between, we were able to just enjoy the 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src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/et_temp\/UMM16-Music-_IMG_20160312_204429-21254_400x.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"\" \/><span class='et-image-overlay'> <\/span><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div> <!-- .et-image-slider -->\n\t\t\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000080;\">We have even more pictures!\u00a0<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Click this button for more viewing pleasure:\u00a0\u00a0 <a href='https:\/\/app.eyefi.com\/s\/31360057-2-z2fSEGFAlk3qbR6U' class='icon-button download-icon' target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">More Pictures<\/span><span class='et-icon'><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Click the following dropdown to view the post that announced the retreat&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class='et-learn-more clearfix'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class='heading-more'>Announcement<span class='et_learnmore_arrow'><span><\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='learn-more-content'><p>Our Men&#8217;s fellowship group is planning to retreat&#8230; or Advance&#8230;\u00a0\u00a0 Our annual &#8220;retreat&#8221; will be held at the Black Rock Retreat\u00a0 Center during the weekend of March 11-13, 2016.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">UMM Men\u2019s Advance (Men Don\u2019t Retreat)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We have hit a milestone:\u00a0 This is our 15th annual Men\u2019s Advance!\u00a0 March 11, 12 and 13th will be be a great opportunity to Advance; to grow closer together and to move forward in our relationship with Christ.\u00a0 Here are the details:<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">When:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 March 11, 12, and 13<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Where:\u00a0<\/span><\/strong> Our &#8220;usual&#8221; location- the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blackrockretreat.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Black Rock Retreat Center<\/a><\/span> in Quarryville, Pa.\u00a0 Our accommodations will be the same as last year (see below for details).<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Who:\u00a0<\/span><\/strong> Any man 16 and older is invited.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">Who<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">m<\/span>:<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0 Our speaker will be Pastor Chris Yount. Here&#8217;s his biography&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Chris has been in pastoral ministry since 1990, serving four different churches as well as helping to revive two others <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-10183\" src=\"https:\/\/pitmanumc.org\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/01\/Chris-Yount-300x221.jpg\" alt=\"Chris Yount\" width=\"223\" height=\"164\" \/>(one which had closed and another ready to close). Chris has been married to Elizabeth for 32 years, raising 4 kids and loving their role as grandparents to Gracelynn (4) and her brother to be born in February of 2016. One of the passions of Chris\u2019 ministry is to encourage and equip people so that not only will they be successful but also content in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Chris writes&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u201cGod has been confronting me with the concept of contentment over the past several years. For too many us, fulfillment is equated with success, material wealth, trophy children, climbing the vocational ladder and other goals. I have found that most folks are pursuing things that don\u2019t necessarily lead to contentment. For the believer, contentment is found in the pursuit of God. Nothing else even comes close!\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Chris enjoys music, (playing the guitar, bass guitar, trombone and singing), spending time outside (hiking, fishing, backpacking, gardening, and swimming), keeping fit (goes to the gym 3-5 times a week), reading voraciously and loves spending time with his family.<\/p>\n<p>Chris\u2019s messages, blog and videos can be found at <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.newlife-umc.com\" target=\"_blank\">www.newlife-umc.com\n<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000080;\">What<\/span><\/strong>:\u00a0 The theme is entitled, &#8220;Equipped to Lead&#8221;\u00a0 Click below to learn more&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\">\u201cEquipped to Lead\u201d<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This is NOT your wife\u2019s retreat!!!!!\u00a0\u00a0 Come join us on the Mountaintop!<\/p>\n<p>Are you satisfied with your relationship with God or do you want more?\u00a0 Are you content and fulfilled in your life? How\u2019s it going as a man, husband, father, son, leader? Is your job satisfying? Do you feel like there should be more to life? \u00a0\u00a0These are some questions that, we as men ask. Come join us as we explore these questions and more. 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